
Spotted him on The Starter Wife. Immediately fell in lurve with him the moment his eyes set upon me. Who is this man? Wow....it is STEPHEN MOYER! OMG! I used to believe TomKat will reign forever, but now I've got Stevie...
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“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” - Mark Twain
Fragrant plants add a distinctive magic to the secret garden, creating a special space that' markedly different from the rest of your yard. Fragrance also encourages visitors to stop and linger, inhaling the sweet scent of roses, peonies, lavender, jasmine, honeysuckle or gardenia for example. If you have empty spaces between pavers, don't want to maintain a traditional lawn area, plant a carpet of fragrant herbs like thyme or chamomile.













Propose
Announce engagement
Determine the type of wedding you want, setting, size and degree of formality.
Select a date and time. Consider time of day, as this affects formality and catering choices.
Select a location for the ceremony, taking into consideration season and weather.
Book a reception site.
Determine who will officiate the ceremony.
Set an initial budget.
Decide how expenses will be shared.
Shop together for rings.
Determine guest list size.
Select and book a caterer, photographer and videographer.
Determine wedding attendants.
Choose your colors; they will affect your flowers, invitations, attire, linens and cake.
Choose your bridal gown and headpiece.
Select and book entertainment for reception as well as music for ceremony.
Announce your engagement in the newspaper.
Choose dresses and accessories for bridesmaids and flower girls.
Start compiling names and addresses of guests.
Begin your bridal registry.
Maintain records of all gifts received and send thank-you notes immediately for shower gifts.
Select florist.
Begin shopping for men's attire.
Select and order invitations.
Plan honeymoon.
Help mothers select and coordinate their dresses.
Ensure that all bridal attire has been ordered.
Begin shopping for trousseau.
Check requirements for blood test and marriage license.
Discuss where you will live after the wedding.
Experiment with hair styles and makeup.
Select baker and order wedding cake.
Arrange transportation, limousines, horse and carriage, vans, etc.
Choose and reserve men's wedding attire.
Start addressing invitations and announcements. Invitations should be mailed six weeks prior to the ceremony.
Design a map to direct guests to the ceremony and reception site for an insertion with the invitations.
Arrange accommodations for out-of-town attendants and guests.
Confirm all details with your hired professionals.
Confirm ceremony details with your officiant.
Arrange rehearsal details.
Purchase accessories such as ring pillow, toasting goblets, guest registry.
Plan attendants' parties.
Make appointment with your hairdresser.
Schedule final fitting.
Schedule attendants' final fitting.
Finalize honeymoon plans.
Have physical exam.
Get blood test and marriage license.
Have your final dress fitting.
Have formal bridal portrait done.
Have final fitting for wedding attendants.
Select gifts for wedding participants.
Purchase gift for fiancé(e).
Have attendants' parties.
Decide menu for reception.
Purchase a going away outfit.
Arrange to have names changed on driver's license, social security card, etc.
Finish addressing announcements to be mailed the day of your wedding.
Contact guests who have not responded.
Pick up rings and confirm that they fit.
Meet with your photographer and decide on special photos you want taken.
Meet with videographer and decide on special events or people your want videotaped.
Meet with entertainer and determine music to be played during special events (i.e., candlelighting, cutting of cake, etc.)
Continue writing thank-you notes
Plan rehearsal dinner. Finalize rehearsal dinner details.


| The Difference I got up early one morning And rushed right into the day; I had so much to accomplish I didn't take time to pray. Problems just tumbled about me And heavier grew each task; Why doesn't God help me, I wondered. He answered, "You didn't ask." I wanted to see joy and beauty, But the day toiled on, gray and bleak; I wondered why God didn't show me - He said, "But you didn't seek." I tried to come into God's presence; I used all my keys at the lock; God gently and lovingly chided, "My child, you didn't knock." I woke up early this morning And paused before entering the day; I had so much to accomplish That I had to take time to pray. ~Grace L. Naessens |
My maternal great grandparents
Wonder how many heirloom did it take to get this photo taken back then? Staring at this newfound bit of treasure got me into puzzles of mind. How old are they when this moment was frozen? I can see that my great grandmother (I would prefer to refer her by "Tidi"; in Dusun dialect means mother) is even not into her full puberty yet cause her small breast is obvious, and she's already married? Was she getting her period already when she surrendered herself to a matrimony? Oh, and that is how a Tagahas costume should look like. I remember now how Taki describe it - long sleeve and knee length sarong. It is indeed different from Kadazan costume we imitate these days. Yeah, this is the real costume of Tagahas. But I just cannot deny that I do resemble from my Tidi's look - those round sharp eyes and pointed mouth. She is also once a priestess who live long enough to see her great grandchildren including me. Yea...it is coming back to my memory now, no wonder she used to stare at me without a wink, I really resemble like her, she must be very proud. If only I was older at those time so I can ask her to teach me to do charms. You cannot say I am superstitous but hey..these days there are so many beast masked as a human, only magic should banish them. She was a priestess. And is that why she got to learn black magic, because of her facial feature?